At 07:00, Stefan Molyneux explains how those who have killed their true self will attack those who have not, because those who still have integrity remind them that it was a conscious decision that they became false. It is possible and right to not succumb to falsehood:

“So that when you see someone who is honest and direct, and courageous, has integrity, you want to attack them because they remind you that what you did, in allowing the triumph of the false self, was a choice. It was not an inevitability, and it is not a wise thing to do. You just told yourself that so that you could live with what you did.”

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(vid) Molyneux: FALSEHOOD — When people have lost their virtuous self, they seek validation, so they may champion a cause, or pursue status, wealth, beauty…. But beauty is fleeting • “So stop transferring resources to the false self. Be honest; tell the truth, and shame the Devil himself!”