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What Do Women Want?
By Henry Makow, PhD
When I was younger, I couldn’t understand what women wanted.
This is because women themselves didn’t know.
Feminism told them to be independent, to have careers and lovers. But their instincts told them to get married and have children.
Recently Mary, an American woman living in London England wrote:
“I am 39, twice divorced, childless and could not understand why it is so difficult for me to find Mr Right. Thanks to your website now I know exactly why. I will show one of your articles to my lady friends [who] are very unhappy and complain that most of the men they meet (and we are talking about men over the age of 30, not 15) just want sex and refuse to commit. I have become spiritual as a result of my loneliness and eagerness to procreate.
In the meantime, I will read your articles faithfully and thank God that someone has the guts to come out with the truth. For the past five years I kept asking myself why my life has turned out as unfulfilling as it has whereas my mother didn’t have that problem (she was born in 1929).”
Mary is one of millions of men and women (including myself) who do not have families because of a covert campaign of psychological warfare against heterosexuals. This Rockefeller-sponsored program of social engineering and eugenics is waged under the guise of “feminism” and “equality.” The pill, sexual liberation and the mainstreaming of homosexuality are all part of it. See “Sexism is Heterosexuality (http://www.savethemales.ca/040902.html) and “Playboy and the (Homo)sexual Revolution” (http://www.savethemales.ca/091101.html)
The aim is to degrade depopulate and destabilize humanity by divorcing sex from procreation and by pretending gender roles are social and not biological in origin. Women have been brainwashed to usurp the male role and abandon the female. The resulting conflict and confusion has led to a breakdown of marriage and family. This produces dysfunctional people who are obsessed with sex and look to the corporate media and state for values and direction.
WOMEN’S SELF-DEFEATING BEHAVIOR
Mary identifies the nub of the problem: men “just want sex and refuse to commit.” Young women today act like sex is the only way to attract men. They try to parlay sex appeal into lasting love and family. This is self-defeating. It is sending the wrong message to men.
Ladies, if you want love and family, do not present yourself in sexual terms. How can you differentiate yourself in terms that practically any young woman can provide? No wonder you are dumped!
Instead present yourself as potential life partners: wives and mothers. In other words, dress modestly and prepare to be indispensable to the man and children you love. Learn the skills of a homemaker and helpmate.
Yesterday, a female cashier at Safeway shocked me by smiling. I quickly realized that it was part of her job description. Natural female charm (warmth, grace, cheerfulness, attentiveness, modesty) has been crushed under the jackboot of feminism.