Women Duped to Seek Power, Not Love
by Henry Makow Ph.D.
While on a visit to Toronto, I saw a beautiful young East Indian woman helping her brother move into a university residence where I was staying. She spent eight hours hauling heavy boxes and furniture.
“Doesn’t your brother have any male friends who could help him?” I asked her.
“Oh, I’m a great believer in equality,” she replied cheerfully as she hoisted a book shelf.
Equality! What a boon for women. In the bad old days, women wouldn’t be allowed to do hard physical labor like this.
This is a bright girl in a Pre-Med program yet she had been easily duped to deny her femininity. They told her femininity was “socially constructed” and she had to be “independent.” Since when are biological instincts socially constructed? More likely “independence” is. Yet, here she is, stunting her natural development by postponing marriage and children for career. Under the guise of “rights” for women, feminism has been a vicious lesbian attack on femininity.
Women were intended to carry children, not pianos. Equal does not mean identical. We all have an equal right to dignity and fulfillment but our paths are not the same. Men are fulfilled by supporting and leading a family. Women are fulfilled by devotion to husband and family and by experiencing their love. (Of course, women can have careers but they should be secondary to family.) …
I sat down with Greg, a tall, handsome, fit, smart, successful Toronto contractor and custom builder. He is 40 and a dream catch for the “oops I forgot to have children” set.
He just ended a three-year relationship with a career woman in her late 30’s due to issues of power and control.
“She wanted to wear the pants and treat me like a servant,” he said. “She was always calculating who did what for whom, and what was ‘fair and equitable.'”
Now you’d think a woman nearing the end of her fertility would snap up a man like Greg who wants to put down roots and have a family. You’d think she’d know how to make him happy. But this woman didn’t. For example, she demanded he nurse her when she was sick but said he was “on his own” when he was ill.
“As I became more successful, she actually felt threatened. She was losing control.,” said Greg. She talked about having children but her actions belied her words. Instead of reading about child rearing, she brought books home about getting the corner office.”
Now she and her unmarried friends sit around bashing men and complaining about the lack of good men. “Half the people in my age group are single,” Greg says. “It’s really scary.”
Men have been feminized. Greg should not have engaged in a power struggle. He should have said at the outset, “You can have power or you can have love. You cannot have both.” …
A woman who really loves a man will accept these terms. (She wants love not power.) This is how marriage takes place. Of course, he will consult her. He wants her to be happy. We love the people who love us.
In heterosexual marriage, the male wins a woman’s trust (i.e. love) through courtship. In return she gives him the power to love her by deferring to him. This exchange of power for love is how a man and a woman become one. It is the psychological key that allows us to grow. Sex is the symbol of this permanent and exclusive bond.
As I have said, feminism is designed to destabilize society by coercing women to abandon the feminine role and usurp the male one instead, undermining heterosexuality and the family. Like all aggression, this perverse assault on gender difference is disguised as an act of “defense” (of woman and homosexual rights.) Rockefeller social engineers want women to have careers instead of family, and this is happening in millions of cases.
The ultimate goal is a banker-run totalitarian “New World Order.” What we think of as “money” is really central banker “credit.” They want to consolidate their fraudulent monopoly, eventually controlling you with their “credit” card in your body.
In order to sabotage marriage and family, women have been filled with mistrust for men and marriage. They been duped to seek sex and power instead of marriage and motherhood. What women really want is power expressed as male love. They will get it when they are finally able to trust a man, their husband.
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